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Would I Have A Chance With This Girl?


We’re both seniors in high school, and this classmate of mine was apparently saying a few things about me that were a bit flattering.
Her friend told me that she thinks I’m “a very, very nice guy, mature and sensible for my age, and also cute.” She said in terms of my looks I’m “on a scale of 1-10, very close to an 8.”
Her friend told me this on Friday, and that evening this girl in question and I were talking for about two hours on Facebook.
Based on this, do you think she may be interested in me for dating?

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I Want To Marry This Girl, We’ve Been Together For A Little Over A Year Now.?


My senior year of High School I met a cute Freshman girl, but she started dating some *** hole. Long story short, he cheated on her (just like I warned her about) and we got together about a couple weeks after they broke up. We have been together for more than a year now, and despite the wide age gap of 4 years, I do love her more than anything and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. We jokingly call each other “wife and husband,” but I would rather make that a reality.
Here’s the thing, I’m 19 and in the Navy, she’s 15 and is just finishing her Sophomore year oh High School. Come September I will turn 20 and she will be 16. That will be highly frowned upon by a lot of people, but I really couldn’t care less because I love her and when we’re both in our 20′s it will be more acceptable (20 year old with a 24 year old doesn’t sound so bad, does it?). She is rather mature for her age, she is really very smart and mature.
I know a year isn’t all that long, but I’ve been away from home for about 8 months (I had about 5 days of leave around Christmas) and I will be away for several more months in the future, then I’ll be lucky to get some leave time before I deploy. I want to let her know I plan to spend the rest of my life with her, but I don’t know whether I should now or wait another year or two. If I do propose, I would need to talk to her dad first, who is an ex-Marine and a policeman. I have no problem with that because frankly they love me, but considering the age gap I’m not sure he’d agree. And if I do, and he does agree, I would plan on having a long engagement. Emphasis on the word “long.” But does that sound sensible? I’m not too sure.
Any advice? Thanks in advance.

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I Met A Wonderful Girl Online And I Believe We’re Falling For Each Other…?


A few nights ago I was procrastinating a bit, not finishing some work, when I decided to go to pay a visit to infamous chatroulette. After a couple minutes of cycling through different people and genitals, I came across this girl. We really hit it off, talking for nearly 4 hours over webcam just that first night alone. We have been doing this every night now since Monday, today is Friday. It gets quite complicated from here…We’re both involved with other people. What I find so interesting about our interactions is that they are based on the utmost level of honesty with each other. My past relationships have been rife with lies and deceit (much on my part). Until this woman, I haven’t been able to fully give myself to anyone, opening the door to my life and real feelings. She knows more about me than my current attachment, and learned it all in a matter of hours. Although such a short time has passed we are already toying with the idea of meeting, risking it all for what we perceive as true happiness. Yesterday she was even looking at flights in her spare time. We’re both dealing with a sense of longing for each other, but also hesitation due to our current situations. We’re trying to stay grounded in reality, recognizing that it’s a huge risk, but we are constantly thinking of one another. She’s not certain she wants to remain with her partner, and I know I’m not going to end up marrying mine in the future. We share so many commonalities, and seem to be inside each other’s heads. Most people engage in this kind of risky activity because of the exhilaration they feel, or merely because it is something new. Such feelings are what ultimately got me involved with my current partner, but this is entirely different. After she mentioned the whole flight thing, we began to have a more serious dialogue on how we’re feeling. I asked her if she was in the right place in her relationship, where she felt it okay to do something like that. She paused, then said that the question made everything a lot more real to her. She said it would be selfish, and she would do it, but wonders what would happen and the arrangements we would make after a first meeting. Where would we go from there? I told her to take some time to digest that a bit. She’s going to be busy all weekend, spending time with the boyfriend and parents for mother’s day. I know it will really force her to ponder what she feels. Meanwhile, I’m sitting and agonizing over the hours until Monday, when I’ll see her face and talk to her again. I know what I’m doing is wrong, but I went from one unhappy relationship into my current, finding myself entangled with another family and many of their issues. I’m a very empathetic person, emotionally invested, but I don’t know how much longer I can do this. Alarms should be ringing in my head signaling the riskiness of it all, but I’m persisting. I’m plenty happy with myself, but need someone that lifts me up and doesn’t drag me down. This new girl is amazing and I hope something comes out of this. I just don’t want to get hurt, nor do I want to hurt her. I sit here today hoping she will give everything some thought over the next few days. As far as anyone knows, we only get one shot at life. I refuse to continue compromising my own happiness. Everything will eventually fall into place, I know this. But, the uncertainty right now is killing me. I guess what I’m doing here is just stating how I feel. I couldn’t possibly have included everything for those who will see this, and as a result, know I won’t get the most sound answers. I just needed to say this all to the world.

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I Met A Wonderful Girl Online And I Believe We’re Falling For Each Other…?


A few nights ago I was procrastinating a bit, not finishing some work, when I decided to go to pay a visit to infamous chatroulette. After a couple minutes of cycling through different people and genitals, I came across this girl. We really hit it off, talking for nearly 4 hours over webcam just that first night alone. We have been doing this every night now since Monday, today is Friday. It gets quite complicated from here…We’re both involved with other people. What I find so interesting about our interactions is that they are based on the utmost level of honesty with each other. My past relationships have been rife with lies and deceit (much on my part). Until this woman, I haven’t been able to fully give myself to anyone, opening the door to my life and real feelings. She knows more about me than my current attachment, and learned it all in a matter of hours. Although such a short time has passed we are already toying with the idea of meeting, risking it all for what we perceive as true happiness. Yesterday she was even looking at flights in her spare time. We’re both dealing with a sense of longing for each other, but also hesitation due to our current situations. We’re trying to stay grounded in reality, recognizing that it’s a huge risk, but we are constantly thinking of one another. She’s not certain she wants to remain with her partner, and I know I’m not going to end up marrying mine in the future. We share so many commonalities, and seem to be inside each other’s heads. Most people engage in this kind of risky activity because of the exhilaration they feel, or merely because it is something new. Such feelings are what ultimately got me involved with my current partner, but this is entirely different. After she mentioned the whole flight thing, we began to have a more serious dialogue on how we’re feeling. I asked her if she was in the right place in her relationship, where she felt it okay to do something like that. She paused, then said that the question made everything a lot more real to her. She said it would be selfish, and she would do it, but wonders what would happen and the arrangements we would make after a first meeting. Where would we go from there? I told her to take some time to digest that a bit. She’s going to be busy all weekend, spending time with the boyfriend and parents for mother’s day. I know it will really force her to ponder what she feels. Meanwhile, I’m sitting and agonizing over the hours until Monday, when I’ll see her face and talk to her again. I know what I’m doing is wrong, but I went from one unhappy relationship into my current, finding myself entangled with another family and many of their issues. I’m a very empathetic person, emotionally invested, but I don’t know how much longer I can do this. Alarms should be ringing in my head signaling the riskiness of it all, but I’m persisting. I’m plenty happy with myself, but need someone that lifts me up and doesn’t drag me down. This new girl is amazing and I hope something comes out of this. I just don’t want to get hurt, nor do I want to hurt her. I sit here today hoping she will give everything some thought over the next few days. As far as anyone knows, we only get one shot at life. I refuse to continue compromising my own happiness. Everything will eventually fall into place, I know this. But, the uncertainty right now is killing me. I guess what I’m doing here is just stating how I feel. I couldn’t possibly have included everything for those who will see this, and as a result, know I won’t get the most sound answers. I just needed to say this all to the world.

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Was This Girl Trying To Insult Me Back? Im Confused?


I called this girl who I follow on twitter “cutie” who has a twitter name “flygirl” and she does not follow me back so im confused but i happen to tweet something right after her “I think twitter is haunted by a ugly ghost fly” and then a few hours later she tweeted “get lost” then next day as soon as I tweeted she said this ” Hey the cockroach is back and walking across the floor”

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Girl Only Wants To Talk To Me (likes Me) When She’s Drunk?


So I know that this girl is into me…because she added me on facebook, sent a follower request on twitter, and texted me “Hi :) ” last night, despite not having my number -_-. She’s a friend of my friend from college and they live in the same town so that explains how she got my number…but I’m just pissed that she only wants to talk to me when she’s drunk…because that’s happened multiple times before where she’ll say how much she likes me when she’s drunk. She’s pretty btw…so its like the ultimate tease.

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I Met A Wonderful Girl Online And I Believe We’re Falling For Each Other…?


A few nights ago I was procrastinating a bit, not finishing some work, when I decided to go to pay a visit to infamous chatroulette. After a couple minutes of cycling through different people and genitals, I came across this girl. We really hit it off, talking for nearly 4 hours over webcam just that first night alone. We have been doing this every night now since Monday, today is Friday. It gets quite complicated from here…We’re both involved with other people. What I find so interesting about our interactions is that they are based on the utmost level of honesty with each other. My past relationships have been rife with lies and deceit (much on my part). Until this woman, I haven’t been able to fully give myself to anyone, opening the door to my life and real feelings. She knows more about me than my current attachment, and learned it all in a matter of hours. Although such a short time has passed we are already toying with the idea of meeting, risking it all for what we perceive as true happiness. Yesterday she was even looking at flights in her spare time. We’re both dealing with a sense of longing for each other, but also hesitation due to our current situations. We’re trying to stay grounded in reality, recognizing that it’s a huge risk, but we are constantly thinking of one another. She’s not certain she wants to remain with her partner, and I know I’m not going to end up marrying mine in the future. We share so many commonalities, and seem to be inside each other’s heads. Most people engage in this kind of risky activity because of the exhilaration they feel, or merely because it is something new. Such feelings are what ultimately got me involved with my current partner, but this is entirely different. After she mentioned the whole flight thing, we began to have a more serious dialogue on how we’re feeling. I asked her if she was in the right place in her relationship, where she felt it okay to do something like that. She paused, then said that the question made everything a lot more real to her. She said it would be selfish, and she would do it, but wonders what would happen and the arrangements we would make after a first meeting. Where would we go from there? I told her to take some time to digest that a bit. She’s going to be busy all weekend, spending time with the boyfriend and parents for mother’s day. I know it will really force her to ponder what she feels. Meanwhile, I’m sitting and agonizing over the hours until Monday, when I’ll see her face and talk to her again. I know what I’m doing is wrong, but I went from one unhappy relationship into my current, finding myself entangled with another family and many of their issues. I’m a very empathetic person, emotionally invested, but I don’t know how much longer I can do this. Alarms should be ringing in my head signaling the riskiness of it all, but I’m persisting. I’m plenty happy with myself, but need someone that lifts me up and doesn’t drag me down. This new girl is amazing and I hope something comes out of this. I just don’t want to get hurt, nor do I want to hurt her. I sit here today hoping she will give everything some thought over the next few days. As far as anyone knows, we only get one shot at life. I refuse to continue compromising my own happiness. Everything will eventually fall into place, I know this. But, the uncertainty right now is killing me. I guess what I’m doing here is just stating how I feel. I couldn’t possibly have included everything for those who will see this, and as a result, know I won’t get the most sound answers. I just needed to say this all to the world.

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How Do You Get A Girl To?


Take her clothes off on chatroulette?

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Obsessed With A Girl, What Do I Do ? Please Help !?


Okay, please, no judgment.
There is this girl that used to go out with a guy at my school, so because of it, I have seen her once or twice but not more than that. When I saw her, my jaw dropped and I felt instantly pulled toward her for how beautiful she was.
I began to become infatuated by her…to the point where I made a fake FaceBook account and added all of her friends [who I also do not know] just to see pictures of her. She had FaceBook and Twitter and I followed her but she deleted it.
Literally, she is all I ever think about. And I know it is wrong and not normal, but I even get jealous if I see pictures of her with other guys, etc. and I wonder if she hooked up with them or something. I know she is not a virgin, but still, it just makes me angry as if she was my Girlfriend or something.
Literally, I think about her all the time. The reason I have not made any effort to meet her is because I am overweight right now, but I am losing weight. I want to be perfect for when I meet her. I even recorded things she likes, things she Tweeted about it, etc. so when I do, I can instantly connect with her.
What do I do to get my mind off it ? It makes me happy seeing her but then I feel depressed that I do not know her, that other guys could have potentially hooked up with her, etc. This weight loss will take a while but I have waited long enough and it is killing me.
Thanks.

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Boy To Girl Transformation?


my friend and i (both girls) wanna go on chatroulette and pretend we’re boys because obviously, we have no lives hahaha. we arent make up experts but want it to look convincing. we have some of my brothers clothes that we can wear but how do we look like boys?! help!

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