I am 18, and up until about 2 years ago i’d been dating the same guy for 2 years. Everyone swore we were going to get married, his family was (and still is) like my family. The only downside to our relationship was he was very jealous, but I dealt with it okay. He dropped out of school in the beginning of senior year, and is now working full time.
About that time he started smoking a lot of weed with his friends. Nothing changed between us, but we didn’t see each other as often. Christmas day we got in a huge argument about one of my guy friends being allowed to drive me home after school. He was convinced I had a crush on the friend. A week later, our anniversary. He calls and says he was hung over, didn’t feel good enough to see me. 3 days later he breaks up with me, gives me bullshit about me being too good and too pretty for him, and that he is holding me back.
I am heartbroken. I sent him a hey-whats-up text the other day, and he responded “what?” I just asked how and what he was doing, and his response was “are you ******* anyone else?” I told him the honest truth, no, I love him and couldn’t bear to do that. He didn’t answer. If he asked me something like that, is that a sign he’s jealous or something? Our married friends asked him to come over the other night, and to bring me with him. His response was no i’m not driving that far… I don’t want to hear anyones opinion about what a shitty guy he is, just curious as to others opinions on why he broke it off. He was talking about me moving in just weeks ago.